Or maybe you don’t want to call it compatibility. Compatibility has a negative connotation - people tend to talk about all the ways in which people are different based on their astrology charts. Here, we’re talking about the ways in which someone feels a positive, closebond to another person through astrology.
The best way to explain this is to use examples from my life. Let me preface this by saying that I’m a Gemini sun, Virgo moon, Cancer rising.
All of my best, closest friends have been either Virgo suns, Virgo risings, Gemini moons, Gemini risings, Cancer suns, or Cancer moons. There’s no denying it. Sometimes, they have two connections with me. For example, my absolute best friend is a Gemini moon AND Virgo rising. That’s even more powerful.
There’s something so powerful about having signs in common. You find that these people just get you in a way that no one else can.
This particularly applies to the sun, moon, and rising, since they are the most personal placements. But also having mercury, venus, or mars in the same sign as someone else’s placement(s) can add to the connection for sure. In addition, if any of these “connections” are close conjunctions (0-5 degrees away from the other person’s placement), then it will be even more powerful.
People seem to ignore the fact that this is a sure way to determine whether or not you have a “spark” with someone. Having the same “energy” based on your astrological placements makes for very similar people, and therefore more inclined to get along.
Sun-moon and sun-rising are the most common connections, in my opinion. Look at your chart. Look at your friends or partners, both past and present. Oh no! They’re a Scorpio! That’s so traditionally incompatible with your sun sign of Aquarius! But also, look - they have an Aquarius moon. Or maybe they have an Aquarius rising. Whatever the case is, having signs in common with someone goes beyond anyone’s traditional ideas about compatibility.
Of course, you can be friends with anyone and everyone depending on your own chart - or just how open and friendly of a person you are. But do you feel chemistry with every person you meet, whether platonic or romantic? No.
Sure, you could go into all the ways in which a Scorpio wouldn’t get along with an Aquarius - but in this relationship, the people seem to put all of that aside because of what they do have in common. These are the types of connections that make you feel comfortable with a person…as if you were meant to be close to them. It feels fated.
The vibes the signs give off in their relationships, but in song form!
Aries x Aries - Man On The Moon // POWERS
Aries x Taurus - oui // Jeremih
Aries x Gemini - Green Light // Lorde
Aries x Cancer - Maps // Maroon 5
Aries x Leo - Immortals // Fall Out Boy
Aries x Virgo - Galway Girl // Ed Sheeran
Aries x Libra - When I Was Your Man // Bruno Mars
Aries x Scorpio - Again // Fetty Wap
Aries x Sagittarius - This Could Be Us // Rae Sremmurd
Aries x Capricorn - Location // Khalid
Aries x Aquarius - Siren // Kal Krazy ft. Elkka
Aries x Pisces - Your Song // Rita Ora
Taurus x Taurus - Just The Way You Are // Bruno Mars
Taurus x Gemini - Call On Me // Eric Prydz
Taurus x Cancer - Set It On Fire // Tritonal ft. Fred Page
Taurus x Leo - Swang // Rae Sremmurd
Taurus x Virgo - Untouchable // Tritonal and Cash Cash
Taurus x Libra - Adore // Cashmere Cat ft. Ariana Grande
Taurus x Scorpio - Caroline // Aminé
Taurus x Sagittarius - Be With You // Mondays ft. Lucy
Taurus x Capricorn - Apologize // OneRepublic
Taurus x Aquarius - When Can I See You Again? // Owl City
Taurus x Pisces - Livin’ the Dream // Tritonal
Gemini x Gemini - Fireflies // Owl City
Gemini x Cancer - Pacify Her // Melanie Martinez
Gemini x Leo - That’s What I Like // Bruno Mars
Gemini x Virgo - Gravity // Kevin Wild and Punk Party ft. Kelly Sweet
Gemini x Libra - Satellite // Tritonal ft. Jonathan Mendelsohn
Gemini x Scorpio - Lucky Strike // Maroon 5
Gemini x Sagittarius - Something Just Like This // The Chainsmokers and Coldplay
Gemini x Capricorn - Verge // Owl City ft. Aloe Blacc
Gemini x Aquarius - Midnight City // M83
Gemini x Pisces - Ghost // Halsey
Cancer x Cancer - Skinny Love // Birdy
Cancer x Leo - Firebird // Galantis
Cancer x Virgo - idfc // Blackbear
Cancer x Libra - Quit // Cashmere Cat ft. Ariana Grande
Cancer x Scorpio - Everyday // Ariana Grande ft. Future
Cancer x Sagittarius - In My Head // Galantis
Cancer x Capricorn - King // Lauren Aquilina
Cancer x Aquarius - Rich Boy // Galantis
Cancer x Pisces - Dynasty // MIIA
Leo x Leo - Primadonna // Marina and the Diamonds
Leo x Virgo - Annie // Neon Indian
Leo x Libra - Classic Man // Jidenna
Leo x Scorpio - Classic // MKTO
Leo x Sagittarius - Gold Dust // Galantis
Leo x Capricorn - Centuries // Fall Out Boy
Leo x Aquarius - Message Man // TØP
Leo x Pisces - Somebody Else // The 1975
Virgo x Virgo - Pompeii // Bastille
Virgo x Libra - We’re Not Just Friends // Parks, Squares and Alleys
Virgo x Scorpio - Heavy // POWERS
Virgo x Sagittarius - Wake Me Up // Avicii
Virgo x Capricorn - Doubt // TØP
Virgo x Aquarius - Tongue Tied // Grouplove
Virgo x Pisces - Out Of My League // Fitz and the Tantrums
Libra x Libra - All of Me // John Legend
Libra x Scorpio - Youth // Troye Sivan
Libra x Sagittarius - She Looks So Perfect // 5SOS
Libra x Capricorn - Forever Tonight // Galantis
Libra x Aquarius - Gasoline // Halsey
Libra x Pisces - Let Her Go // Passenger
Scorpio x Scorpio - Rude Boy // Rihanna
Scorpio x Sagittarius - Loved By You // POWERS
Scorpio x Capricorn - Do I Wanna Know? // Arctic Monkeys
Scorpio x Aquarius - Redbone // Childish Gambino
Scorpio x Pisces - Battle Scars // Guy Sebastian ft. Lupe Fiasco
Sagittarius x Sagittarius - Do Re Mi // Blackbear
Sagittarius x Capricorn - Daddy Issues // The Neighbourhood
Sagittarius x Aquarius - Carousel // Melanie Martinez
Sagittarius x Pisces - The Sound // The 1975
Capricorn x Capricorn - Congratulations // Post Malone ft. Quavo
Capricorn x Aquarius - Cold Water // Major Lazer ft. Justin Bieber and MØ
Capricorn x Pisces - Monody // The Fat Rat ft. Laura Brehm
Aquarius x Aquarius - Lowlife // That Poppy
Aquarius x Pisces - LA Devotee // P!ATD
Pisces x Pisces - Teen Idle // Marina and the Diamonds
Any signs can be compatible. Astrology does not have the final say in the succes of a relationship. Only you and your partner can decide if you want it to succeed or not. Astrological compatibility is just an indicator of how easy or hard it will be.
Traditionally Fire signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) are compatible with air signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius) and other fire signs. Air signs are compatible with fire signs and other air signs. Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) are compatible with earth signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn) and other water signs. And earth signs are compatible with water signs and earth signs.
There’s also the matter of opposite signs. They are naturally drawn to each other and there is usually a lot of attraction between them. These are: Aries & Libra Taurus & Scorpio Gemini & Sagittarius Cancer & Capricorn Leo & Aquarius Virgo & Pisces Though their elements are compatible, the opposite signs are each other’s counterparts and it’s really all or nothing when they come together. It can either be the best there ever was and ever will be, or a total fiasco. Pretty much the same thing, albeit less powerful, goes for Same-Sign couplings.
To know if you’re compatible, you should look at your love interest’s chart and compare it to yours:
Your Sun tells you about very basic compatibility, but is not by any means a definitive yes or no. If anything, compatible sun signs are a nice bonus. It’s your essential personality, the one you probably identify most as.
Your Venus is by far the most important placement in relationships.
It’s never more than two signs away from your sun sign.
It tells you about what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s also an indicator of how you attract love and act in a relationship. People may find they act rather differently when they’re in a relationship. Knowing your and their’s venus may help you understand why you do the things you do for love. Your venus should be compatible with your partner’s mars and vice versa.
The Moon represents what men find most important in a woman, though not necesarily in a romantic way. Look at your venus for this. It’s the sign that tells all genders their deepest thoughts, fears and emotions. Having the same moon sign often results in great relationships with deep connections and emotional fulfillment, though it might also be very interesting if your moon sign is or is compatible with your partner’s sun sign.
Your Mars represents what women find most important in a men, though not necesarily in a romantic way.
Look at your venus for this. Mars takes charge of sexual attraction. It’s the planet of passion, but also of how you express anger.
Your mars should be compatible with your partner’s venus and vice versa.
Mercury is connected to communication, reasoning, intellect and awareness. It’s not all that important in romantic compatibility, but people with compatible or the same mercury signs will have an easier time communicating with and understanding one another.
Finally, you might want to take a look at your Juno. You need your birth time to calculate it. Juno was the Roman godess of marriage. This placing is not near as important as venus, but it will tell you what you need in a relationship to grow as a person rather than what you may want.
I think that’s pretty much it. If you have any other questions, my ask box is always open.
THREAD // which moon sign are best compatible with your moon 🌙
ARIES MOON
fiery AF deep down so they’re attracted by passionate, lively people like themselves. best compatible w/ fire moons in leo, aries & sagittarius!
TAURUS MOON
100% homebody that’s just tryna cuddle, drama filled ppl are a turn OFF. best w/ chill moon signs like taurus, virgo & capricorn who make u feel at peace & at home
GEMINI MOON
talking about ideas + engaging with others is the ultimate turn on so less into emotional + clingy people, more moons in air signs: gemini, libra & aqua
CANCER MOON
hard exterior but sensitive AF deep down. attracted to people who can protect ur soft heart and not betray ur trust. go for cancer, scorpio & pisces moons
LEO MOON
soul of a DIVA, romantic&generous af. gotta be around those who don’t disrespect you. best with moon in: leo, sag & aries
MOON IN VIRGO
just tryna look out for others and improve people’s lives & health. chill, rational & well-organized moon signs will be a blessing : virgo, capricorn & taurus
MOON IN LIBRA
easy going! libra rules relations so deep down, u don’t feel complete without a BOO. best match with ppl who get along with basically everyone; libra, aqua & gemini
MOON IN SCORPIO
most intense, SEDUCTIVE & transformative souls. tryna form a deep bond w/ a lover. not best with people who are superficial & untrustworthy. high compatibility with moon signs in scorpio, pisces & cancer
MOON IN SAGITTARIUS
a philosopher, learner, teacher & world traveler at heart. Best matched with fun-loving, carefree, SPONTANEOUS souls just like yours! best match moon signs: leo, aries & sag
MOON IN CAPRICORN
nature of this moon sign is literally the opposite of everything the Moon stands for lol. Likely to come across cold in romantic relationships but deep down, ur just tryna find a bae to form a POWER COUPLE with 👊🏾
find you a taurus, virgo or capri moon
MOON IN AQUARIUS
rebels at heart, black sheep of society just tryna revolutionize the world ✊🏽 looking more for a BFF rather than a lover. best matched with those who also stand out, moon in : aqua, gemini & libra
MOON IN PISCES
creative soul, HOPELESS ROMANTIC at heart ((lives in a fantasy world)). Ur moon sign represents home & comfort so ur best match are those who’s moon sign are kinda emotional + peaceful. perfect for moon in pisces, cancer & scorpio 🌹
How successful your relationship will be with another sign (love and friendship are complicated, and although certain characteristics may make a relationship difficult, they do not make it impossible)
Whether you’re a good person or a bad person (everyone is capable of being either)
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